“No Dating”

I’m sitting in my apartment cleaning out my closet and something came over me. I sat on my bed and start thinking about dating and how it’s not working out for me right now. I’ve been going on dates and I can honestly say I have no connection with anyone. It could be me because I’ve built up walls from past experiences and its tough to let anyone in after MAJOR disappointments in dating. I have a great time on dates don’t get me wrong, but the conversations are very surface and I’m looking for someone who has depth to them. Someone who thinks deep and want to get to know more about me on a intellectual level. Most dates I just laugh and Smile and go with the flow because I like to eat. For 2019 while taking my 9 months off to travel. Im NOT going to date. I’m going to get to know myself more, build my self esteem, heal from past disappointments and re-connect with myself. It sucks sometimes as a woman we always have to keep marriage and children in mind as a future goal(per society standards) I was on a date and a guy said “Its about time you had a child, your getting up there in age.” Or I’ve heard “What’s wrong with you, no kids and never married.” Some guys dont even think before they say things on dates. I quickly get turned off and tune them out and just enjoy my meal. I NEED a BREAK from dating. 2019 Im going men free. No dates. Just finding me!

Ladies, who cares what society has to say about you being single and unmarried. That’s more time for you and God. More time for you and friends. More time for you and travel. More time for you to figure things out. It’s your life, take your time and ALWAYS do what makes YOU happy!!!

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