The Dark Side of Becoming Successful……

Hi Ladies,

Sorry I haven’t wrote in a while. I’ve been very busy. I started a Women Empowerment Company, and I Coach Women to gain clarity, and focus to reach their entrepreneurial goals.

Many of you know I worked in Corporate America since I was 14 from McDonalds to Progressive Insurance. I’ve done all society has told me. Go to school, get good grades, get a job. That didn’t work for me. I found myself always feeling STUCK. Not having enough money for bills. Not having free time for myself. Not feeling fulfilled. Over the years I developed workplace anxiety. I spoke with a therapist and she explained I had SEVERE PTSD from the workplace. I prayed and launched my own business.

You’ve successfully launched a business and are able to feed your self without working a traditional job. This is where the journey begins of losing friends and family members exposing their true selves. You would think after all you’ve struggled through that people would be HAPPY for you on your journey to Success. Unfortunately, many are not and it’s disheartening.(And lets be CLEAR family & friends know you’ve struggled because they were your support system when you were down. ) So why is it when you start becoming successful does this happen?

People don’t expose the fact that some individuals insecurities they have within themselves will make them PROJECT their dissatisfaction about who you have become (Successful Entrepreneur).Some people have accepted defeat and this is HOW Life will be just barley surviving. The only way their life is validated is by grouping together with others to talk bad about you so they can feel better about themselves. It’s a really sad existence because we ALL can WIN. Always remember small minds gossip. Big Minds (like us) discuss strategies and ideas to help ourselves and others become successful.

Honestly, you are a new human being (You’ve grown). They need to get to know the new you. Your not the old girl who would hang out after work at happy hour, go to clubs and dance all night on the weekend, and do life like you use to. As a entrepreneur your work hours are not traditional 9-5. You are constantly working 24hours every time you have a idea. You are constantly setting up meetings and brainstorming plans to execute the vision GOD gave to you. Not only did GOD give you a Business Idea but you are having a Spiritual awakening at the same time where GOD is molding you and pouring into you so you can help and serve his people. How HE chooses you too!

To sum it all up the dark side is everyone can’t go where you are headed in life. Many will be left behind. Family and Friends. As much as you love and care for them. They have to learn to love and care for themselves. They are not helping you and their aggressive behaviors towards you and their negative energy can go. Some will treat you very bad to try to make you feel less then. You STAY the COURSE!!! Ignore what they say, and ignore what they do. Also, BLOCK if you need to. YOU are the LIGHT of this world and GODS people need you. Your TRIBE will come. KEEP believing and trusting GOD.

Success is a process and NO MATTER what we must keep pushing forward. Your TRIBE is coming. Stay on the journey to SUCCESS !!!!

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